Giving the coins to the kohen
How Should Pidyon HaBen Be Paid?
Kehuna.org, the official website of Igud HaKohanim, encourages Pidyon HaBen to be performed לכתחילה — in the preferred manner from the outset.
We therefore advocate using the full value of five silver shekalim and giving them completely and unconditionally to the Kohen, without any prior requirement or understanding that the coins will be returned.
May the Coins Be Given on Condition That They Be Returned?
The Talmud discusses a transaction known as מתנה על מנת להחזיר — a gift given on condition that it later be returned.
Generally, such a transaction can have the legal status of a valid gift. This principle appears elsewhere in the Talmud, including in connection with the mitzvah of the lulav.
Pidyon HaBen, however, presents an additional concern. The Gemara in Kiddushin 6b discusses redemption in which the money is given to the Kohen with an expectation that it be returned. The classical sources treat such arrangements with particular caution.
The Sefer Ha’Agudah connects this concern to the prohibition of מסייע בבית הגרנות — a Kohen arranging matters in a manner that encourages people to direct their priestly gifts specifically to him.
Why an Agreement to Return the Coins Can Be Problematic
Beyond the formal legal question, there is also an important practical concern: did the Kohen truly agree freely to return the coins?
A Kohen may be approached only shortly before the Pidyon HaBen and told that the silver coins are a rare collector’s item, were specially ordered, are needed for the child’s framed certificate, or are expected to remain with the family.
In such a situation, the Kohen may feel uncomfortable refusing. At a family’s simcha, he may say, “No problem,” even though he would have preferred to retain the coins that were given to him.
The issue is not merely whether the Kohen verbally agreed. The concern is whether the transfer was genuinely complete and whether his agreement was made freely rather than because he felt pressured by the circumstances.
The Chasam Sofer, Yoreh De’ah, responsum 291 , discusses the validity of a Pidyon HaBen where the transfer to the Kohen is not genuine and complete.
Must Pidyon HaBen Be Performed With Silver Coins?
The Torah specifies the value of the redemption:
וּפְדוּיָו מִבֶּן־חֹדֶשׁ תִּפְדֶּה בְּעֶרְכְּךָ כֶּסֶף חֲמֵשֶׁת שְׁקָלִים
The Mechilta and Sifrei analyze the Torah’s language through the method of כלל ופרט וכלל — a general statement, followed by a specific detail, followed again by a general statement.
The Torah first commands that the firstborn son be redeemed and then provides the specific measure: five shekalim of silver. From this, Chazal derive the types of property capable of effecting the redemption.
The item used for the redemption must have monetary value of the kind recognized by the Torah for this transaction. Certain categories are excluded, including:
- Debt documents or promissory notes
- Real estate
- Servants
- Consecrated property
What About Cash, Checks, or Electronic Payment?
Modern payment methods raise the question of whether the payment itself constitutes the required property used for redemption or merely represents an obligation or mechanism for transferring value.
The Talmud in Ketubot 102b discusses a father who writes the Kohen a document acknowledging that he owes him the value of the five shekalim. The document itself does not redeem the child.
This distinction is particularly relevant when considering instruments such as checks or other forms of payment that may represent a claim to money rather than the actual silver value being transferred at the moment of the Pidyon.
Questions concerning modern cash, checks, bank transfers, PayPal, electronic payments, or similar methods involve additional practical and halachic considerations. Igud HaKohanim therefore recommends avoiding those questions altogether when it is readily possible to perform the mitzvah using the traditional silver.
In Conclusion
The goal of Pidyon HaBen should not merely be to identify the minimum transaction that might technically work. A mitzvah of this significance should, whenever reasonably possible, be performed in the clearest and strongest manner.
Igud HaKohanim therefore recommends:
- Using silver with at least the required value of five Torah shekalim.
- Giving the silver completely to the Kohen.
- Making no condition that the Kohen return the coins or their value.
- Avoiding arrangements that place social or financial pressure on the Kohen to return what he has received.
- When possible, avoiding alternative payment methods when actual silver can readily be used.
In this way, the Pidyon is performed לכתחילה, with an unequivocal transfer of the redemption to the Kohen.
Selected Sources
- Bamidbar 18:15–16
- Mechilta, Shemot 13:13
- Sifrei, Bamidbar 18
- Kiddushin 6b
- Sukkah 41b
- Rambam, Peirush HaMishnah, Sukkah 3:11
- Ketubot 102b
- Sefer Ha’Agudah
- Chasam Sofer, Yoreh De’ah 291
